If we decide not to do so is a decision best remember ourselves as teenagers still have a long time to have to declare themselves ready to do so. Clear, No sex for any of the methods are really safe! The most secure is not necessarily with sexual conduct before marriage.
*** The Safest Sex is No Sex ***.
Believe that we ourselves can best make the decision, namely not to make the sex before marriage. Remember that we have the right to:
* Changing your mind
* Decided the best thing for your self
* Decided "NOT" with positive activities
* Leave the situation or environment that does not support you for doing so are not affected
Perhaps many of us are not aware that sexual orientation before we start entering puberty. Elections sexual orientation is part of the development of psychological and physical. Although the orientation may deviate like the gay people (gay or lesbian), sexual orientation is not something that can be decided by other people, but the rights of each human self. Gay normal when it is said can be received in a certain culture and does not say when the normal is not acceptable in another culture, but we should still be respect the man without his sexual orientation discrimination.
Surveys show ***
men are able to solve problems more quickly, while women analyze complex issues better.
In addition, fifty-four percent of men have sex several times a day, while women only nineteen persennya. That is the facts about gender differences in the human brain. This is very interesting to be given the limitations and environmental norms often cover what is actually there in the human brain. We do not, but do not deny that there is every human being has a sexual interest in other people.
However, if there is among us decided to continue the relationship at the point sexual relationship (although not the best decision when it is not based marriage bond), this means you have to keep themselves and your partner from unwanted pregnancy (KTD) or transmission of sexual diseases (PMS). If you decide to sexual relationships, self-protected!
But it should still be remembered, have sexual relationships that really safe?
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ALAT contraception and sexual myths
Contraception is a form of a pair questioned min. Each woman sexual conduct with a man then he has to experience the risk of pregnancy! It is wise when you discuss sexual issues with your partner about the prevention of the occurrence of unwanted pregnancy and disease before deciding to do either sexual anal / vaginal or oral. Could not be denied that the most effective method in preventing pregnancy is to not make a sexual relationship (Abstinence), although many methods of contraception available.
* Various colors and types of condoms
If used correctly, condoms are a very effective method in preventing pregnancy, although not one hundred percent safe. No leakage occurred close to the possibility of condom use. In addition there is sometimes a tendency to release the result of a condom does not feel comfortable. Of course this is NOT the wise decision!
In addition, there is no safe method in the sexual relationship which is often done as interrupted coitus, petting (each clink genitals without penetration), oral sex (oral use), or anal sex (through the anus / rectum). All the above is very risky. Interrupted coitus and petting can not guarantee to prevent pregnancy. Many cases of unwanted pregnancy show that sexual activity is conducted coitus interrupted or petting, but will not be able to prevent pregnancy. This may occur because of very liquid lubricants issued pair of women during sexual touch can accelerate sperm guidance to the organ in a woman who ultimately tuba falopii to place the occurrence of fertilization. In addition, sperm can only ejakulasi before going out with a small quantity that will be triggered by pergerakannya liquid lubricant from the sex organs of women.
What we do is the responsibility of the responsibilities you have for life. So should not try before I officially married!
Summary oral or anal sex is not wise choice in sexual conduct because the oral (mouth) or anal (anus / rectum) has a normal bacterial flora in the area but has a risk of harm if moved in the other body including the vagina or penis. So you should avoid the activity.
Similarly, in ativitas osculation (deep kiss), which allows the exchange of bacteria occurred between couples. This is very risky cause various forms of disease such as disruption to the throat wound or ulcer in the stomach.
So the option remains on ourselves. If you can not afford to withhold sexual stimulus that appears one of the options is to do masturbasi (sexual activity itself). Many pro and contra of the influence of maturbasi of health, for example, myths masturbasi against pengeroposan bones. But it's not medical terms, the survey shows that even masturbasi mentioned the depression that can occur. But this option back to you.
If possible switch to the sexual desires a more positive activities such as sports or arts and other activities. This is certainly more useful and meaningful and of benefit to the future. Okay guys?
