Occupation of women in employment seize the number of unemployed men. Especially when women in the profession-a field of professional civil servants. As a result, many male owners and high school diploma graduates who are unemployed so that they meet the coffee shop and knock the door of offices to search for jobs. The problem is manifold also arise due to start this side of life.
Around 2006, I saw a TV program. This program shows that the husband sitting in the house to keep children and wife working in the office has become a reality. Santainya with the husband said that he is not ashamed to live at home while his wife works outside. Initially, the husband is working and stop working because something matter. Search for another job is not easy, as presumed. Finally after a long time the family economy by the wife. This certainly is not desired in Islam. In Islam suamilah searching for sustenance. But because many jobs have been taken over by women, men are forced to sit at home because of lack of work.
2. Increase the risk of disease:
Heart disease that attacks the many men, now began to befall the women also. This is because many women have been doing jobs normally done by men.
3. Increasing crime:
In addition, women who work are also now take part and to feel the problems faced by men. One consequence is the rising crime among women because of the excess unemployment among educated women.
A doctor once said that the causes of the crisis in the family and many Foreign Countries criminality in society is because a wife has to leave her house. Therefore bertambahlah damage masyaraka.
Women who work outside the home also tend to cause a scandal to the men. They wear clothes that increase male orgasm, vituperate scent that tercium to 10 meters, with a friendly talk, and many more. All able to overthrow the faith of men. With the women who work in offices or factories to improve husband-wife abuse. This will not cause a shock home ...?
4. Loss of female nature:
Women who work on public transport facilities, in mining, in which heavy industry, even in the way of cleanliness, they have lost their female nature. The women who work in the office was far more the longer the relationship because her family tired of extremes in both the home and outside the home.
5. Not able to serve her husband and her son with the perfect:
A husband who allows his wife to work also enjoy the wife of a salary do not have rights to, for example:
Told his wife always smiled when met with. Told how his wife may have a smile filled with exhaustion and stress in the work place.
Place husband complain and support issues. Do not be expected, because his wife also have a myriad of problems for the husband to stir. Ask for ideas from his wife for a husband who is the impasse in the workplace. His wife also were deadlocked in labor affairs.
The husband's body. As always most happy when my husband massaged by his wife. Told his wife soothe children who cry.
Told his wife washing dishes, clothes, sweep the house, etc.. In this case, the husband should share the burden with my wife in the house. It is very unfair to force the wife to get the money and at the same time, ask his wife to take all of their own home affairs. And many other examples that can not be referred to again.
6. Forced to pay parlormaid / tutor:
For poor families who can not afford to pay their nanny had to resort to its old-man or his brothers to nurture and protect their children. While for the have money, they are able to pay for the adjuvant and educator. Expect an adjuvant to manage at home and keep their children at the same time an action is wrong and who are at risk. Indeed, the cost is cheaper if an adjuvant capable of doing both tasks simultaneously. Adjuvant but also a man. He can manage fatigue in the home, so that when employers default mangasuh child rage on. Sometimes beaten up, yet the employer does not see. In addition, most of adjuvant low-educated. They do not know how to educate children well. If both the parents is not the situation with the sprightly, the child will follow the level intelensia adjuvant.
As a way out, they can pay for a nanny or deliver their child to a care institution. Care institutions (nursery) is also not a guarantee that children get enough love. Many children who must be considered by the nurse-educator. Indeed, the benefits the child is able to socialize with many friends.
If you can not afford both, had to ask the parents to perform tasks to keep house and educate their children. Here the conflict can happen in education. Those parents free their children educated with their method, while the grandfather-grandmother of the child to use other means. This can cause conflict. Besides, if tega-old told people we educate children? But in the age of parents should enjoy the results of their weary toil for their young.
7. Husband to be depending on the income his wife:
Initially, the men receive a salary of his wife, embarrassed. But after a long time to become comfort. As a result, the husband does not want to give to the wife gajinya for home affairs tungga. Husband considers his wife have enough salary to the kitchen affairs. Sometimes the husband borrowed money from his wife, but quasi-sure to return it. If you reach the stage of severe, the husband does not want to work longer and rely on the salary of his wife. This is all contrary to the teachings of Islam. In Islam, the husband who gives sustenance, not his wife. Wife should not be forced to directly or indirectly to pay for the house. Do not suspected in this case only a few going. Many of the case, has become a habit to poke mix between a husband and wife property.
8. Vehicle for the wife to work:
This only applies to the wife, who works in the office. For transportation, would not want a car must be purchased again. This means that the additional fuel costs and vehicle maintenance. Results obtained each month is not too much. Not to be cut to pay for the costs of adjuvant and nurture children.
Even if the public choose a vehicle for transportation then the risks appear to others. As the thrust in the bus, which of course is no longer considering restrictions of Islam. Also a sense of security to be lost, because in most of the time the wife must go and could probably go home at night.
9. Can not breastfeed the child with the perfect:
What is the difference between drinking milk directly from mother's breast milk to drink with a bottle inserted in the susu. Both provide the same source of nutrition for the mother is not coming from susu formula. The difference is the mental association by the child. When suckle his mother's breast, the baby will have a spiritual bond 80% stronger than that given through the bottle and more menyintai his mother. Suckle directly from the breast of a mother, can only be done by the mother who does not work.
In addition to the inner bond, the cost also determine when you want to buy a extortioner susu. Mothers who come from poor families can not afford to buy the expensive extortioner susu. Moreover after the PERAS susunya would be put where? At home there is not necessarily cool (refrigerator), especially in the workplace, such as in factories. Which have cooling facilities for female workers and the time given to that special milk susu. In fact, if not susu diperas just more than one hour can cause water susu out and this causes inconvenience for the mothers who are working. So the water susu diperas not appropriate for mothers who work dikilang.
Research also shows, the mother who hands down directly educate children on the first three years of life will get the best results. Because, at that time the mother has the opportunity to play an important role in the development of physical, cognitive, social, and social child. Then after three years, the mother can work out with a quiet get ...? Also uncertain. Children easily formed when they are under the age of ten years. At the time that the mother the opportunity to inculcate religious values for their children who will not be obtained from the subjects in religious schools. Mother also has the opportunity to guide their children in school lessons.
The Ideal Type of Employment For Women Surely the first task of women and most do not have a big disagreement on mentarbiyah is a generation that has been prepared by God, both physically and soul. Obligatory for a woman to not forget the noble tract caused by the influence of this material or any kind of modernization, because no one is able to perform this noble task is determining the future of the people except him.
