Women can not work is a sensitive issue. that women should stay at home to keep the child.
Now this issue can not women's work is a sensitive issue. Perhaps you will be charged menzalimi women, not just against them, and many other, if you force the wife must work.
I did not forbid women to work. However, there are certain conditions that are not fulfilled by the present time when women want to work outside the home. This raises the negative effects of women working outside the home.
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Western countries require women workers to replace the men who died in the war many of the world's first and second. It also caused by the rapid revolution in the industry where labor is cheaper and women are easily able to provide economic benefits of ganda.
What about Muslims? Do you want to see a female character such as the destruction that occurred in the western countries there ..?
Why do women have a desire to work hard ... work?
Generally, the reason women are working out because of money, it's clear ... Women usually come from poor families or families that simple. If already married her husband may very poor and only able to work as carpenters pungut garbage, selling meatball, or so stiff building. And they have many children, such as habits of the poor.
Her husband would work in pabrikpun quite difficult, because the factory usually prefer women are as easy and cheap gajinya. There is no other way except for his wife to work, in order to increase income. Financial condition is also a reason for the women who come from families that hand to mouth a lot of brother-beradik.
Because he was the only one who is able to find the money (the parents are old and sick, sickly), then he would not want to have to work to support his brother-younger brother. Women from these groups living in many countries poor, such as Indonesia and the amount could reach millions.
If women's groups are forced to work first to help her husband or his family, the woman who came from the second group because the money is not working. They work for several reasons below:
1. Enhance the life:
In fact her husband is able to provide sufficient sustenance se as able to rent a house or even buy a simple house, a car or a motorcycle used a simple, able to put their children in government schools, etc.. But because the quality of life than the higher, the work of the wife, their dream to buy a bigger house, new car, put children in private, and streets outside the country, it is one of the reasons why the wife wishes to work.
2. Encouragement of parents:
His parents have spent a lot of money to send daughter. So there is no happiness for people to see their child's success with getting work. This can also increase the prestige of parents in front of friends and brothers. Besides, if his son does not work it will dissipate the money spent and earned a degree.
3. Government debt to pay:
Getting a scholarship is a rezki. Parents to be relieved because they do not need to spend studying that very expensive. But do not rejoice first, there are hidden costs that must be borne by the grantee when a student has passed the attached contract with the government. If for example, 1 year study S1 (degree) 2 year contract, if the 4-year study, to work with the government for 8 years. If you want to decide the contract may only. But all have to pay back the scholarship.
4. Eliminate dependence (independent) to the husband:
Women's groups are proud because this money is able to explore their own and have confidence that high. They work for fear any time left or divorce or death by her husband. According to Islam such cases the woman does not need to work, but her parents will bear the heirs or if the parents have died. What about the children? If his father is still alive, then the obligations of the father to pay for their children, even with his wife divorced. If the father has died, the responsibility of the heirs who will pay their children.
But because Islam is on the far left at this time, most of the settlement of the above is not known or ignored by many people. Many cases of divorce after her husband disappeared with the new wife regardless of living for their children. As a result, the wife must work hard to pay for her life and her children.
There was also a married late or not at all want to get married, that does not depend on the men. So many women in rich countries who marry late to be able to collect a lot of money for the first stable life before marriage.
5. Raising the social identity:
This only applies to women who work in the office either the government or the private sector. People will see it with the feeling of astonishment. Moreover, if the woman holds the important position in the work place. Women's groups from this desperately pursue careers compete with fellow man. They can be proud that the men in the competition. They then recommend programs or seminars to encourage other women to follow their trail. People-parents, brothers and friends all feel proud of the success. When awareness arises when a woman to stop working, immediately get a reaction from them-they increase the social status of women is due to the success.
6. Enforcement community:
When in a place most women work outside the home, the woman who only keep children at home will be considered low by the community. Questions are always asked is "Where you work?", "Why have you not the wife works, he is a higher education?". This is the long run create a woman who sat in the house would also like to work, because it does not hold the belief was low.
